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Sub male with crossdressing desires , looking to be dominated by ?

I’m a 47 yr old male who has liked dressing up in women’s lingerie and clothing since I was about 6/7 yrs old .. yes .. I knew even then that I liked the feel of silky things along with tight restrictive clothing as well ( corset, tight skirts , nylons ,ect ) and have been doing some sort of self bondage since that age as well ..
I’ve had a couple partners whom I disclosed my deepest fantasies and desires to but they ended up being to vanilla and just didn’t get it !
Including my now wife .. yes, I’m married ! But , it is definitely a marriage of convenience!
We have not had any intimate relations in over 10 years .. and well .. I’m just tired of trying to pleasure myself .. well , not tired but I certainly would love to find someone who understand and has dominate desires of their own ..I don’t have to crossdress ( and lord knows I’m nowhere near passable ) but I definitely enjoy it as it really turns me on .. so does the thought of being dominated from behind .. In a perfect encounter ( for me at least ) I would be told ( somewhat forced to dress in some type of lingerie , including a corset ) ( all of which I can bring ) and then be tired or cuffed into a position that suits whomever I’m with and then they could have their way with me !
Yes .. I’m getting hard just thinking about it!
Speaking of trying hard .. I’m not going to lie ,
( I’m to old to lie plus, what good would it do )
But , I’m not exactly big down there .. matter of fact I used to be average but now without using it much over the last 10 yrs .. it has actually gotten smaller ..I know , I’m pathetic!
And I’m bad ! So , I need to be punished !!
I am very open minded except for one thing .. even though I am not exactly skinny ( 275lbs ) I have a block when it comes to being with a very overweight women .. that being said , if I’m bound and can’t move my hand or legs .. then I guess I wouldn’t have much choice in the matter , now would I ? But , I will always prefer smaller petite women .. I’ve had some fantasies about being forced to be with a man ..But , I’ve never been with one .. I can’t say I wouldn’t try it though , given the right circumstances..
I’m educated , I make decent money when I can find properties to invest in .. yes ! You guessed it ! I am a real estate investor .. which means , I flip houses ..again , when I can find enough profit potential homes to invest in .. I buy and sell a lot of things when I’m not flipping houses ..like , cars , tools ,construction material .. basically whatever I can make a few dollars on or a few hundred .. within the law ..
Lol ..my drug dealing days are behind me ..
I smoke occasionally ( only sometimes when I drink ) and I drink occasionally, not often anymore but I’m guessing If I meet up with some ( and I hope I do ) then I’ll probably wouldn’t mind having a few to loosen me up ..
I don’t pay for membership on any sites , not because I am cheap .. but because , I don’t want any record of it showing up on any CC’s . So, if you want to contact me then you’ll have to decipher my contract info .. which is pretty easy .. just replace the 3’s with e’s and the 0’s with o’s and the 7 with t .. the two mines are just that ..9’s ..
( h3ll3nwh33ls99 (that’s the name!) At ( and this is the contact place) ya and who, com- unincation is the key ..
I hope to hear from somebody within 50 miles of me or really anywhere within Central Fl area.

Thank you for reading this ..
I wish everyone the very best !!
God Speed !

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Crossdressing

I preferBottom
Been with a crossdresserNo
Looking for someone passable?Yes
Crossdressing ExperienceCloset for the most part ( non passable )

Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Receiving
How much Strapon can you handle?Everything!, Long and Thin, Long and Thick, Average Sized, Short and Thin, Short and Thick, Hard and Fast, Soft and Slow

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Sex clubs ? I don’t know ..but, let’s find out .
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:Been so long , I don’t think it counts .. mile high club .. of course , I was young and much skinnier ..lol

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildHeavyset
Height183 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Short
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitleReal Estate Investor

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA very dominate person .. and humor .. has to have some sense of humor .because life is to short not to laugh once in a while .. and believe me , if you ever seen me crossdress , you will laugh .. hehehe
Our first dateListen , as of right now , I’m just looking to hook up ..hopefully it might become a regular thing and then who knows ..we might fall fir each other or not ..
I’m not opposed on finding someone I can share my true self with ..I feel like I have much to offer but , again ... I’m not seeking out a fall in love type of relationship ..

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mistress
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Femdom, Kidnapping, Mummification, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Suspension, Tickling games, Verbal humiliation
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasThe first time I realized I liked women’s lingerie and bondage .. gotta say, I’ll never forgot when I discovered that !

Fetishes

FetishesCrossdressing, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkI want to try it
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isI want to try it
Anal sex isI want to try it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Pocket pussy, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
"Off Limits":Blood , scat , permanent marks , I think that covers everything I won’t try ..

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyGetting Kidnapped, or drugged , forced to fully dress as a women and be locked into drag .. ie .. locks on the corset , shoes , ect .. and then bound , strapped , or cuffed in a position that whoever is forcing me desires , then gagged .. could be a ball gag or a dildo gag .. or even a silk scarf .. blindfolded .. so I don’t know what’s coming .. and then I’m helpless .. can’t excape .. maybe , I’m set up on a milking table and while I’m being milked , I’m also being penetrated .. and then .. made to serve as a French maid .. . Something like that !
Fantasy sex partner:Petite , or tall and skinny but definitely very dominate women .. and maybe even her husband ..who knows .. I’ll try just about anyone at least once ! Someone who is clean and has a sense of humor , fun, intellectual.. very self confident.. knows what she wants and she’s gonna have it .. strong .. lingerie loving .. corset wearing .. kind but sadistic women ..
who loves , loves , loves to dress up her dates as a women and then stick heir dildos in their dates behind and make him whimper but, beg for more ..
Are you out there ..
By the way, I don’t have to have all this ..it’s just they asked for my perfect date .. I’d be happy as a clam if I could just find someone who want to show me what a pathetic guy I am and stuck it to me in the rears ..

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, Rubber, PVC, Latex
Ideal session:I think I’ve already covered this
Ultimate femdom fantasy:Covered this as well